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Post by 99dohcneon » Fri Sep 26, 2008 10:51 pm

I have to talk to someone about I think Im going crazy! The wife is wanting to "seperate" not divorce. We have 3 kids together. We have been going downhill for awhie now I guess.

She been talking to a guy online we both know him. But she talks to him ALL the time. She let me look at a chat log between them and she talked to him for about 6 hours almost the whole entire time. He is really flirty with her and she is a little flirtly back. But I know hes like that to every girl. Hes in Iraq right now. She says he likes someone else.

I feel like im going crazy!
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Post by INVUJerry » Sat Sep 27, 2008 1:11 am

Forget that man. Don't "separate". Or give her the ultimatum "If you want to separate, you have to leave, not me, I"m going to stay here for the children." Or something along those lines. I would have tried to get a copy of that chat log, and keep it for future reference. It's just in case if she wants to get a divorce later on, you have evidence that she was the one that had a sort of extramarital affair, even if it was "only online".
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Post by 99dohcneon » Sat Sep 27, 2008 6:17 am

INVUJerry wrote:Forget that man. Don't "separate". Or give her the ultimatum "If you want to separate, you have to leave, not me, I"m going to stay here for the children." Or something along those lines. I would have tried to get a copy of that chat log, and keep it for future reference. It's just in case if she wants to get a divorce later on, you have evidence that she was the one that had a sort of extramarital affair, even if it was "only online".
She dont want to stay just for the kids. It will be a few months anyway so Im maybe we will figure things out. I do have a copy of them. Wish this shit would just stop im so stressed its hard to eat or sleep. Its our 4th anniversary today
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Post by Ladi3sman55 » Sat Sep 27, 2008 1:19 pm

sorry to hear that man you'll be in my prayers and i wish for the best!
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Post by c0mmunisttaco » Sat Sep 27, 2008 1:23 pm

Disconnect the internet.

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Post by BIGRAM » Sat Sep 27, 2008 4:28 pm

just lay the pipe real good
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Post by 99dohcneon » Sat Sep 27, 2008 7:50 pm

Ladi3sman55 wrote:sorry to hear that man you'll be in my prayers and i wish for the best!
Thanks, Its the hardest thing Iv been through
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Post by Ladi3sman55 » Sun Sep 28, 2008 1:10 am

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Post by 99dohcneon » Sun Sep 28, 2008 6:14 am

Do you guys know of anything that can save key strokes that wont pick up as a virus? I also have a bluetooth wireless keyboard. I wonder If I can find something to go through that.
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Post by vielecustoms » Sun Sep 28, 2008 8:32 am

wow, that sounds identical to what my bro in laws wife just pulled. disconnect the Internet, go and get her some counseling.
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Post by 99dohcneon » Sun Sep 28, 2008 8:44 pm

Guys thanks for all your support. I expected the worst and hoped for the best. Its diffently looking better. We are going to talk later.
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Post by Benjineon04 » Tue Sep 30, 2008 3:42 pm

I don't think you want to get a program the keeps track of keystrokes. If she finds out she's gonna be pissed and you prolly won't have a chance to make it better. Thats my opinion. Good luck with everything
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Post by 99dohcneon » Thu Oct 02, 2008 1:43 pm

Benjineon04 wrote:I don't think you want to get a program the keeps track of keystrokes. If she finds out she's gonna be pissed and you prolly won't have a chance to make it better. Thats my opinion. Good luck with everything
Yea. Im going to trust her and if I find out something its going to be over.
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Post by Tyler » Thu Oct 02, 2008 4:43 pm

^ You have to pretty computer savy to find some of those programs! I doubt shed have any idea....better to be safe then sorry?
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Post by superD » Sun Oct 05, 2008 4:12 pm

Tyler wrote:^ You have to pretty computer savy to find some of those programs! I doubt shed have any idea....better to be safe then sorry?
i concur. difficult to find if you dont know they are there.


but the fact you feel the need to monitor your wife is a sign of bad times. my gf did it to me and started accussing me of cheating on her because of emails she read before we started dating. :shock:

needless to say she was accusing me of cheating because she was herself.
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